Christian Parenting: Navigating LGBTQ+ Topics and Sex Education
Summary
Christian Parenting comes with the challenge of addressing LGBTQ+ topics and Sex Education in today’s educational landscape. Children are often taught that gender is a personal choice and that diverse sexual identities should be embraced.
However, the Bible clearly teaches that God created male and female and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman. So, how should Christian parents teach their children a biblical perspective on Sex Education? And what should they do if their child expresses same-sex attraction? Let’s explore these questions from a biblical standpoint.
1. What Are Our Children Learning About Sexuality?
Sex Education in schools has changed significantly over the years, especially in Western countries. Many schools now promote ideas such as:
🤔 Gender is not assigned at birth but is a personal choice
🤔 LGBTQ+ relationships are a natural form of love
🤔 Marriage is not necessarily between a man and a woman
For instance, some public schools in Australia teach that gender is not binary but rather a self-determined identity. They also encourage students to accept same-sex relationships and gender transitions as normal and valid.
The challenge for Christian Parenting is that these teachings directly contradict biblical values. So, how should we respond?
2. What Does the Bible Say About Sexuality?
The Bible provides clear guidance on the nature of gender, marriage, and sexuality.
1) God Created Male and Female
God did not leave gender identity up to individual choice. He established it as part of His creation order.
“So God created mankind in His own image, in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them.”
(Genesis 1:27, ESV)
The Westminster Confession of Faith affirms this truth:
“After God had made all other creatures, He created man, male and female, with reasonable and immortal souls, endued with knowledge, righteousness, and true holiness, after His own image.”
(WCF 4.2)
This means that gender is an essential part of God’s creation and not something humans can alter.
2) The Purpose of Marriage and Sexuality
The Bible also defines the purpose of marriage and sexual relationships.
“That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.”
(Genesis 2:24, ESV)
The Westminster Confession of Faith further explains:
“Marriage is to be between one man and one woman. God instituted marriage for the mutual help of husband and wife, for the increase of mankind with legitimate offspring, and for preventing uncleanness.”
(WCF 24.1)
Thus, marriage is the union of one man and one woman, and sex is meant to be enjoyed within this covenant relationship.
3) Homosexuality Is a Sin
The Bible is clear that LGBTQ+ relationships go against God’s design.
“You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.”
(Leviticus 18:22, ESV)
“For this reason God gave them up to dishonorable passions. Their women exchanged natural relations for those that are contrary to nature; and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, committing shameless acts with men.”
(Romans 1:26-27, ESV)
However, it is important to remember that all sinners can receive grace through Christ.
“And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.”
(1 Corinthians 6:11, ESV)
✅ Key Takeaways:
- God created male and female.
- Marriage and sexual relationships are designed for one man and one woman.
- LGBTQ+ lifestyles contradict biblical teachings, but God offers forgiveness and transformation to all who repent.
3. How to Answer Your Child’s Questions About LGBTQ+ Topics?
Q: “Why does my school teach something different?”
📌 Parent’s Response:
“Schools teach this because not everyone follows God’s Word. Some people believe they can define what is right and wrong based on their own opinions. While many believe in the Bible, many others do not, and that is why schools teach different views.”
📖 Biblical Basis:
“If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.”
(John 15:19, ESV)
➡ Core Message: The world does not follow God’s truth, but as Christians, we trust in the Bible.
Q: “Why do people believe gender can change?”
📌 Parent’s Response:
“When people do not believe in God, they try to define right and wrong by themselves. That’s why ideas about gender and marriage keep changing. However, God created male and female, and His design does not change.”
📖 Biblical Basis:
“He answered, ‘Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female… and the two shall become one flesh?’”
(Matthew 19:4-5, ESV)
➡ Core Message: God’s truth remains unchanged, even when society’s values shift.
4. How to Teach Your Children a Biblical View of Sexuality?
To help children uphold biblical values in a secular world, parents must consistently teach them—not just by saying, “The Bible is right, so just believe it,” but by guiding them to understand and confidently embrace biblical truth for themselves.
1) Teach Through Everyday Conversations
Faith-based education should not be confined to special lessons; it should be woven naturally into daily conversations.
📌 Example Questions:
- “Why did God create male and female differently?”
- “Why is marriage meant to be between a man and a woman?”
- “School teaches something different—what does the Bible say?”
By asking these questions, parents encourage children to think critically about biblical values.
2) Use Media as Teaching Moments
Movies, cartoons, and advertisements increasingly portray LGBTQ+ relationships in a positive light. Instead of avoiding them, use these moments to discuss biblical principles.
📌 Example Conversation:
Child: “Why are two men getting married in that movie?”
Parent: “That’s what the world teaches, but the Bible says marriage is a union between one man and one woman.”
Rather than simply condemning the world’s views, help your child compare them with Scripture and develop discernment.
3) Read the Bible and Pray Together
The most powerful way to instill biblical values is by regularly reading Scripture and praying as a family. Guide your child to discover God’s design for sexuality through His Word.
📌 Recommended Bible Verses:
- Genesis 1:27 – God created male and female
- Genesis 2:24 – Marriage is the union of one man and one woman
- Matthew 19:4-5 – Jesus affirms the biblical definition of marriage
- Romans 12:2 – Do not conform to the world, but renew your mind in God’s truth
Encourage children to read these passages themselves and draw their own conclusions under your guidance.
4) Teach That Following Biblical Values Isn’t Always Easy, But It’s Worth It
Children may struggle with feeling different from their peers when they stand by biblical values.
📌 Parent’s Encouragement:
“Yes, following God’s Word can feel lonely at times, but as Christians, we are called to be different from the world.”
📖 Biblical Foundation:
“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—His good, pleasing and perfect will.”
(Romans 12:2, ESV)
➡ Key Message: We do not follow what is popular; we follow God’s truth.
5) Teach Love While Standing for Truth
Children may ask, “Does that mean LGBTQ+ people are bad?” It’s crucial to help them distinguish between loving people and affirming sin.
📌 Parent’s Guidance:
“We are called to love everyone, but loving someone does not mean agreeing with everything they do. Jesus loved sinners, but He never approved of sin.”
📖 Biblical Example:
“Jesus said, ‘Neither do I condemn you; go and sin no more.’”
(John 8:11, ESV)
✅ Key Takeaways:
- We must uphold biblical truth while treating LGBTQ+ individuals with love and respect.
- Everyone needs the gospel; our role is to share both truth and love.
5. Conclusion: How Can Parents Instill Biblical Values About Sexuality?
- Teach that God created male and female. (Genesis 1:27)
- Explain the biblical purpose of marriage and sexuality. (Genesis 2:24)
- Help children think critically about secular worldviews. (Romans 12:2)
- Integrate biblical conversations into daily life.
- Encourage them that following God’s truth is worth it.
- Teach them to stand for truth while loving others.
Children are less likely to be swayed by worldly values when their parents are confident in biblical truth.
The world changes, but God’s Word remains the same.
As parents, let’s stand firm in truth and raise our children with both conviction and compassion!
6. A Prayer for Parents and Children
“Dear God,In a world that teaches values different from Yours,help us to discern truth from falsehood.May we seek Your wisdom, trust in Your Word,and guide our children to follow Your design.Give us courage to uphold biblical values with grace and love.In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
